Aphrodisiac for Women
These five ways of male behavior are aphrodisiac for women. You may be in for a surprise.
You found a woman you love! Good for you. She's beautiful, she's funny, she has a great personality, and best of all, she makes you happy.
Now…what about her? Yes, you love her, but that's not enough. If you want to make her happy, you need to show her she's loved.
Be a good listener
Women feel very special when you listen to them. By “listen” we don't mean “stare at the baseball game while she talks white noise.” Ask her about her day, every day. Take an interest in what interests her. A word to the wise here, though—listening to a woman requires more activity than listening to a man. You need to say “uh-huh” and “mmm-hmm” and “that's interesting” or she'll think she's not interesting. If she shares with you that her boss was frustrating, don't tell her to quit her job. Don't tell her anything. She's not asking for advice, just a listening ear. So listen. She'll love you for it. It is a sure aphrodisiac for women.
Be a good housekeeper
If you live together do your share—or more—of the housekeeping. Most women do the bulk of housekeeping in a relationship, even if she's not much of a neat-freak. Don't give her more work to do! Help with the dishes; put your underwear in the hamper; replace the toilet roll; and put the seat down! If you don't live together, pay attention anyway. She's worked hard all day. She doesn't want to deal with your empty cans and dirty socks.
Be a romantic date
No matter how long you've been together, she still wants to be romanced. Take her out to dinner. Surprise her with a special home-cooked meal. Bring her breakfast in bed! Go dancing. Make your time together beautiful. Definitely an aphrodisiac for women!
Be a good lover
This one's certainly more pleasant than washing the dishes. But how? The answer isn't sex positions. It isn't working out at the gym. The answer is simpler—and harder: pay attention to your woman, check her responses, and wait to take the next step not when you're ready, but when she is. You know it's worth the wait!
Speak the magic words
Listening, taking care of the house, taking her on romantic dates, making love are all ways to say “I love you.” But you need to say the words. Say, “I love you.” Say, “You look beautiful today.” Get specific: you love her laugh, her giggle, her guffaw. Write her a love letter and mail it. Oh, and give her stuff. Wildflowers picked from your neighbor's overgrown sidewalk. Chocolate. An exercise ball. Whatever says to her “I'm thinking about you, all the time.” These little gestures show her she is loved which can be the best natural aphrodisiac for women.
Each point by itself is a natural aphrodisiac for your woman.
If you do all these things…she'll know you love her, and she'll want to love you, too. And then, well, you may need a little something more to please you both. Let's return to point #4. Being a good lover isn't rocket science. Pay attention to your woman, put her pleasure first, and soon she'll know what an impressive man you are.